Pakistani Muslim Divorce in USA

Pakistani men residing in the U.S. travel to their homeland to get divorce decrees from Pakistan. They return back to the United States and seek recognition and enforcement of the Pakistani Islamic divorce decree in a state court. This article deals with the issues related to Pakistani Islamic divorce in U.S. courts.

Following the partition of Pakistan in 1947, the Islamic family law regulating marriage and divorce introduced under the British rule continued to govern until 1961 when the government of Pakistan passed the Muslim Family Law Ordinance (MFLO) to regulate divorce in that country.

The Constitution of Pakistan requires all laws to be brought in accordance with the Quran and the Sunnah which constitutes the deeds and sayings of Muhammad, the prophet of Islam. Chapter 3A establishes the Federal Shariat Court. The law of marriage and divorce is governed by the rules of Islamic sharia.

The law requires the age of males entering into marriage to be 18, and for females 16; there are penalties for contracting under-age marriages, though under age marriages in Pakistan remain valid regardless of the age limit. As to the guardianship issue, the law requires the application of the Hanafi School of Jurisprudence allowing a woman to contract herself in marriage without the consent of her guardian (wali).

The law requires mandatory registration for marriage; failure to register, however, does not invalidate the marriage. Legal constraints are placed on polygamy by requiring the husband to register his marriage at the local Union Council for permission and notification of existing wife/wives. The chairman of the Union Council establishes an arbitration council with representatives of both husband and wife/wives in order to determine the necessity of the proposed marriage. The law requires that the application must state whether the husband has obtained consent from the existing wife or wives. Violation to these rules is subject to fine and/or imprisonment and the husband becomes bound to make immediate payment of “mahr” to the existing wife or wives. However, if the husband does not obtain consent of his existing wife/wives, the subsequent marriage remains valid regardless of the provisions stated in the law; that is because provisions of Islamic sharia are superior to any other law in Islamic countries.

Under the rules of Islamic divorce in Pakistan, a husband can divorce his wife unilaterally, any time, in any place, and, without any obligation to state a reason for divorce. After the husband announces his divorce statement “I divorce you”, three times (triple talaq), the law mandates that the husband gives a notice in writing to the chairman of the Union Council. The chairman must forward a copy of the notice of divorce (talaq) to the wife. Non-compliance with these provisions is punishable by imprisonment and/or fine. The law requires that within thirty days of receipt of the notice of divorce, the chairman of the Union Council must establish an Arbitration Council in order to take steps to bring about reconciliation between husband and wife. If reconciliation is failed, a divorce takes effect after the expiration date of ninety days from the day on which the notice of repudiation was first delivered to the chairman. If the wife is found pregnant during the period following the announcement of divorce, the divorce does not take effect until ninety days have elapsed or the end of the pregnancy, whichever is later. Since the 1980s, and in view of the pressure from Islamic sharia scholars, the practice of the courts in Pakistan is that they validate a unilateral divorce by the husband (triple talaq) by pronouncing “I divorce you” three times, despite a failure to notify the Union Council; this is because Islamic sharia allows a husband to divorce his wife at will, without any provision regarding registration of divorce.

U.S. State family courts do not apply Islamic sharia because of violation of the Establishment Clause set in the U.S. Constitution. However, state courts can recognize divorce decrees issued in Pakistan on the basis of a doctrine in private international law known as “Comity”. Such recognition does not entail an obligation on State Courts to agree with the rulings of a foreign divorce judgment in Pakistan. The Doctrine of Comity is raised when the husband resides legally in the United States, travels to Pakistan, to obtain an Islamic divorce decree from a court in that country, obtains an easy divorce by just stating three times: “I divorce you”, or “I divorce my wife”, in the presence of two male witnesses or one male and two female witnesses; pays the deferred “mahr”, records his divorce in Pakistan, authenticate the documents through proper channels, travels back to the United States, serves his wife with divorce papers, and then seeks recognition and enforcement of the Pakistani divorce by a State Court.

Recognition of Pakistani Islamic divorce decree by a State court in the United States on the basis of “comity” is not mandatory. State courts may deny recognition and subsequent enforcement if the judge deems the Pakistani law is “repugnant” to a U.S. principle of law. Generally speaking, foreign divorce judgments are recognized on the basis of “comity” if the parties involved receive adequate notices, i.e., service of process, and, generally, provides one of the parties has a domicile in the foreign nation at the time of divorce, and the foreign court has given opportunity to both parties to present their case, and the trial was conducted upon regular proceedings after due citation or voluntary appearance of the defendant, and under a system of jurisprudence likely to secure an impartial administration of justice between the citizens of its own country and those of other countries, and no prejudice towards either party, and should not violate a strong U.S. principle of law.

An Islamic divorce decree in Pakistan differs substantially with respect to property division and the “mahr” stipulation. Under Pakistani Islamic law of divorce, wives are entitled to the deferred “mahr”, which is, in most cases, much less than what a State court in the U.S. grants the wife. State courts may not recognize a Pakistani divorce decree if the cause of action on which the divorce is based is “repugnant” to “Public Policy”.

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Prevent Divorce

It may seem like a relief to just get divorced and be done with the whole mess, especially when things have gotten really bad. Most people would actually prefer to work out their differences and desperately seek ways to prevent divorce.

Divorce can be a lengthy, expensive process, often both physically and emotionally draining. It can be devastating to children of the marriage, and frankly is just not an easy way out.

If you think there is any possibility of preventing divorce, you can turn your marriage around by reading these helpful tips. However, it is up to you to change. You cannot rely on or expect that your wife will change first, if at all. By taking the initiative yourself, either she will respond positively to the changes you are making, or you will gain confidence and learn more about what makes a new relationship successful if this one does end in divorce.

The first thing you need to do to prevent divorce, is to stop disagreeing and/or fighting with your wife and agree with her instead. Yes, agree! Try to honestly look at things from her perspective, without becoming defensive or attempting to justify things you have said or done that she didn’t like. When you agree with someone and really try to put yourself in their shoes, they will be more receptive to a worthwhile conversation.

If she complains, for example, that you are not really “present”, that you don’t listen to her, chances are there is some truth in that statement. So, rather than getting in to an argument, you might respond with, “You’re right. I’ve been distracted with (something at work, worrying about finances, whatever is really on your mind!) and I probably do seem like I’m not paying enough attention to you.” By agreeing, you will be validating her feelings and she will recognize that you are listening and may well back down. When you do this and take ownership of your shortcomings, it become a powerful force to help prevent divorce.

The next thing you want to do is to lighten up for awhile. Not every conversation in a strained relationship has to serious and heavy. Or in some cases you just may have withdrawn from talking altogether becasue it just sucks up so much emotional energy to get in to these confrontational interactions. It may not be easy, but try to become more upbeat and lighten the mood around the house, avoided intense or heated conversations. It will take tremendous pressure off the relationship.

Finally, to prevent divorce, really take stock of your own actions and words and think about how they may have been contributing to your marital problems. You can’t blame your wife for all the trouble, although it is easy to do in a strained relationship. This is a partnership, and both of you contribute to the problems, whether directly or as a reaction or response to something the other is doing. It is up to each of you to examine your own part, but start on your own if you have to.

Get some notecards and start writing down your problems, thoughts, and concerns throughout the day. When you get home, pull out your notecards and say “Honey, I’ve started to write down some things I think about during the day, and I’d like to (share them with you, get your advice about something, etc)” She may look at you kind of funny, and it may mean swallowing your pride, but would you rather prevent divorce or continue in the conflict? Once she recognizes that you are willing to begin taking full ownership of your issues, concerns and mistakes, and that want to share your innermost feelings about these things with her, she may begin to see you in a more positive light and become more receptive to working on the marriage. Once you start communicating in this manner you will be able to begin working through conflict and healing your marriage.

You must start to do these things now, she needs to know you care about making a significant difference in the way things have been. They are worth the effort and can help to prevent divorce–you just may be surprised at the results!

What’s Your (Filing) Status A Deep Dive into Divorce and Taxes

I was talking to one of my colleagues, Marianna Goldenberg, founder of CURO Wealth management, who told me that one of her clients decided to delay her divorce because she wanted the tax deduction for the children. She didn’t realize that alimony is taxable, so putting off the divorce ended up costing her in the end! With tax season just around the corner, this conversation prompted me to write about what you should consider when filing your income tax returns if you are separated or divorced. There are some things to consider: Filing Status, Tax Deductions for Children, and Alimony and Child Support.

First, Filing Status

Your filing status is used to determine your filing requirements, standard deduction, eligibility for certain credits and your correct tax. You want to choose the one that results in the lowest amount of tax. In general the tax rates get higher in this order, starting with the most advantageous: Married filing jointly Single head of household Single Married filing separately

But there are things to consider – carefully – before you decide which way to go. Filing jointly: As far as the IRS is concerned, If you are separated but still legally married as of December 31st of the year in which you are filing, you are considered married and can file a joint return with your spouse. Is this a good idea? Keep in mind that if you file jointly, you could be liable for any problems related to the return. I have heard from countless women who said they didn’t know that they were exposed to the liability of the joint return they signed. It is never a good idea to sign without fully understanding all of the information claimed. If you aren’t sure of the information, hire an independent accountant and have them review any tax returns before you sign them. Worst case, if you find you have signed a return that creates a liability, you can try to invoke the -innocent spouse- principle that allows a spouse to escape liability, if they can prove their case. I don’t suggest this as a plan, but it may help if you find yourself in that position.

Single: Since your filing status depends on your marital status as of December 31, if you were divorced by that date you would file as single taxpayer, regardless of whether or not you and your spouse lived together during any part of the year. If you are still married on December 31, and if you and your spouse live together, and are not legally separated, you must file either married filing jointly, or separate returns. Married filing separately is usually the least cost-effective way to file taxes.

Single, Head of Household: You may qualify for Head of Household if you meet the following conditions: You were unmarried or considered unmarried on December 31. You paid more than half of the household costs for the year. You have a child or other qualifying person living with you for more than half the year.

Second, Tax deductions for Children Most divorcing couples believe that they are entitled to take the exemptions for the children. I have seen divorces delayed due to people thinking they will lose the exemption if they divorce. Often, when there are multiple children, spouses agree to split the exemptions. While the IRS assumes that the spouse who has custody of the children is entitled to the exemption, in fact the spouses are allowed to trade them back and forth freely, using IRS Form 8332.

Honestly, the spouse with the higher income should tax the deduction, otherwise, they are missing a chance to maximize tax savings. I know this idea makes the other spouse feel like they are missing out on a tax savings so I suggest consulting with an expert on tax in divorce who can calculate the value of the exemption(s) to each spouse. The one who can make better use of the exemption(s) should take all of them, and if appropriate, compensate the other spouse. As my mom always says, pick your battle and this would not be the one that I would advise you to pick!!

Third, Alimony and Child Support It is important to understand the following: child support is not a deduction for the paying parent nor taxable income to the receiving parent. Alimony is. When completing your lifestyle analysis you should take into account (as an expense) the taxes that will be due on alimony, and budget to pay that expense quarterly. Otherwise, April 15th will come and you will be upset with the tax bill that may be handed to you! Believe me, I have clients who are prepared and still get upset! It is important to consider taxes when negotiating alimony. When possible, would it be better to take a larger marital asset distribution in lieu of alimony? Short answer – yes!

Taxes are not simple, and as in all complicated issues, I urge you to consult your Lawyer, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst or Financial Advisor for further details.

Contact Catherine Shanahan at www.csmdivorcesolutions.com.

How to Come Out Of Your Divorce With the Best Overall Outcome

The proceedings can be a very difficult time in the lives of individuals that are going through it. Whether you are a man or woman, there many things that need to be taken into account as you are looking at all of the different things that you need to take into consideration. Divorce is never a fun time for anyone, and you need to make sure that you are properly handling the entire ordeal to the best of your ability. There are many things that need to be taken into consideration in order to help you to come out of the situation with a positive outcome, hopefully for both individuals, although there may be some conflicting interests that keep this from happening. A do other things that you can do in order to influence a positive outcome from your divorce proceedings include;

Lawyers For Legal Representation

The first thing that you need to do if you are going through a divorce, is to find lawyers that are going to be able to help you with your legal representation. There many things that need to be taken into account throughout the ordeal, and lawyers that are specially trained in this field, and knows how to handle a variety of situations that normally would be problematic for individuals to handle on their own. There are many things that you need to take into consideration when searching for a Dallas divorce lawyer, which is also encompassed by Dallas Business Lawyer firms as well. You need to make sure that your lawyers know what your goals are in the divorce, what you would like to keep, and what you are willing to part with if there is a settlement. The last thing that you want is for this to go to court, so reaching a settlement can definitely be something that will be in your best interests in the long run.

Compromise

Any divorce proceeding is going to require a little bit of compromise on your end. You need to make sure that you are not being greedy, and are willing to part with the possessions that are rightfully your spouses. Although the laws say that each divorce should be around 50-50 in terms of assets being split, you also need to take into consideration what was yours prior to the marriage, and what was theirs prior to it. Some marriages start with a prenuptial agreement as far as who keeps what assets in the likelihood of a divorce, and what assets are going to be off-limits to each individual. Some prenuptial agreements will have clauses in there that state if infidelity is a part of the divorce, that there are going to be a number of different things that they need to look at.

It it is important that you go into every divorce proceeding with a good idea what you are looking to get out of it, as well as what you are willing to part with. By being able to compromise, and having the appropriate legal representation, you are my going to have a much higher likelihood that you come out of it with a positive outcome.